School Performances: Plays, Concerts and Assemblies Through the Year

Seeing your child perform at school is one of the best parts of parenting a school-age child: the class assembly where they say one line very loudly, the music concert after months of practice, the Year 6 leavers’ show. These are the events parents most want to be at.

They are also events that are easy to miss, because the date often arrives with only a few weeks’ notice and the details come in several separate messages. This guide covers the main kinds of school performance and how to make sure you are there.

The performances of a school year

  • Class assemblies, where one class presents to the school and parents, often once a year per class.
  • The nativity or Christmas performance, usually for the younger years in December.
  • Carol services and Christmas concerts.
  • Music concerts, for children learning instruments or singing in a choir, often once or twice a year.
  • Harvest, Easter or other festival assemblies, depending on the school.
  • School plays and musicals, more common in junior and secondary schools.
  • The Year 6 leavers’ performance in July, a highlight for many families.

Tickets and seats

School halls are small, so many schools limit tickets to two per family or run more than one performance. Tickets may be allocated, sold through the school’s payment system, or first come, first served on the day. When a letter says tickets go on sale at a particular time, put it in your calendar as you would a booking deadline.

Class assemblies are usually open to all parents of that class without tickets, but often start straight after drop-off, so you may need to wait in the playground or come back. Check the start time and the entrance.

Costumes, lines and rehearsals

Performances often come with requests: a costume or a coloured T-shirt, lines to learn at home, or an extra rehearsal after school. Costume requests usually arrive a few weeks before. Lines may come home on a sheet in the book bag. Extra rehearsals may change pick-up times for a week or two, which matters if your child usually goes to after-school club.

Help with lines little and often: a few minutes at bedtime is better than an hour the night before. And if your child has no lines, a reminder that the people singing in the chorus are just as important goes a long way.

Photos and filming

Schools have different rules about photographs and filming at performances, often depending on whether every child in the show has photo consent. Some allow filming for personal use only and ask parents not to post it online, some film the performance themselves and share it, and some ask for no photography at all. Follow the rules on the day, and remember that the best view of your child is often not through a phone screen.

Music concerts

Children who learn an instrument at school, often through a local music service, usually have one or two concerts a year. Letters about these may come from the music service rather than the school, from a different email address. Concerts may be in the evening and sometimes at another venue, with an earlier arrival time for performers. Note both times, and check whether your child needs to wear uniform or concert dress.

A real-life example

A Year 2 class assembly is announced in a newsletter three weeks ahead, on a Thursday at 9am. A week later the class teacher emails asking for children to wear something green, and to practise their lines. The day before, a reminder says parents should come to the side gate at 8.50am.

Three messages, one event, and the date in the first one. Miss the first and the others make no sense; miss the second and your child is the only one not in green.

Getting time off work

Performances are usually on weekdays, often in the morning or mid-afternoon, and many working parents need to book time off. Ask for it as soon as the date is announced, and check whether there is more than one performance: an evening show may be easier than a morning one. If you share care with a partner or another family member, agree early who goes to which event across the year, so nobody misses all of them.

How Peakly helps

Peakly reads each of those messages, from the school, the class teacher and the music service if you add its address, and sends you a short WhatsApp message with what matters: the date and time, what to wear, and any ticket or rehearsal details. The performance goes into your Google or Outlook calendar, and if the time changes, the entry moves.

Several emails about the same day become one calendar entry rather than three, and at 8pm the evening before, your daily summary reminds you about the green T-shirt.

Questions parents ask

Can I film my child’s school performance?

It depends on the school. Many allow filming for personal use only and ask that videos are not shared online. Check the rules on the day.

How many tickets can I get for the school play?

Many schools limit tickets to two per family because of space, sometimes with extra performances. The letter will say.

What if I cannot attend my child’s assembly?

Tell your child beforehand and ask them about it afterwards. Some schools share photos or recordings with families.